If a case can't be resolved by consent and doe's actually proceed to trial in the family court, what will generally happen is any case concerning children will rely heavily on the reports of family consultants, ICL's where appointed and any other relevant professional reports.... not affidavits from each party
If it's a financial case, the court will rely heavily on financial statements and actual evidence to back them up, not affidavits from each party..
But hey, it's your money.