She's said she's going to be keeping the kids for half of the school holidays (orders say they spend every holiday with me) and that they will be spending Christmas with her - so threatening to withhold but not actually withholding yet. She's had two of the kids text me to tell me that this is what they will be doing.
I've already booked their tickets over to me. Can't see that I can do much about that. I can't force them to come. I don't want to alienate them more.
As I write all this down, I can actually see how ludicrous this is and that, while I know she will breach the orders with the holidays, legally she's just full of threats. So thanks for being a place to get some perspective!
You're right sammy. Us relocating has nothing to do with her money. And I'm actually earning less down here! She is trying to say that it is material though. That we had been plotting to move and if she had known about our intentions to move at the time of the FLC (even though we didn't have any intentions) she never would have agreed to our request for a binding financial agreement and would have refused to sign. Thus getting more money because we would have to pay the csa assessed amount.
If you know about binding child support agreements (and I guess I was hoping to get some more insight and info here), there are only several ways to dissolve them. One of the ways is to claim that the other party withheld material information that would have influenced your decision. And this is where the ex is trying to go. That we deceived her. And that she's going to take us back to court on these grounds.