Hi all,
Please remember that this is a legal forum.
1. It is now a police matter and they are extremely unlikely to drop any charges.
2. It is a matter for your husband whether he pleads guilty or not. He should get legal advice.
3. You will need to give evidence against him in court.
4. Mental health issues can be dealt with by courts. Your husband, not you, should seek legal advice about his options.
In short, our system doesn't do much in these situations other than leave it up to a court to decide. There is very little you can do once the police are involved.