I'm dealing with what a court expert psychiatrist said is 'strong traits of if not the disorder' for bdp. Personally, as she is such a liar, I think there is some narc in her too (perhaps covert). Anyway, multiple people (therapist, lawyers,etc) said the passage of time will set you free. That's starting to happen now. Sammy has prime are if his kids, so it's easy to say don't play the legal game. But those without prime care, such as myself, I'm absolutely trying to use the law (family court, police) to help my case and to get primary care of my kids so they can live in a stable environment. I found Scott Carter on YouTube great for understanding bpds and narcs. I found The Proper Person a great help too - he got prime custody from his narc ex while self representing. Initially he had stuff all care too due to fake violence orders. He had a judge sacked a d won appeals in high courts. He is an inspiration to those self representing. And let's face it, when dealing with a cluster B (ie, Npd, bpd) if you use lawyers you'd go broke and barristers don't know the case well so often miss opportunities to expose then during cross examination. Good luck
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