Wait a second.... (nope I am funny).
Glasshalfful - mate chill. Seriously, just chill. Story time. I used to withdraw $20 every time I went past an atm. I did some crazy stuff to be able to 'prove' that my ex was lying when she made complaints to the cops about me breaching the avo. She'd lose her car keys.... Hmm Sammy must have broken in, better call the cops... Eventually, the cops stopped asking me to come to the cop shop for a chat every time she made a complaint, they'd just call me so they could be seen to be investigating her concerns. But I was a nutter, like you are. Overwhelmed with all this stuff, I was looking for faults where they don't exist. Doing crazy stuff like racking up transaction fees at ATM's thinking the cops would do something IF I could 'prove' her complaints were vexatious.
Now I have solutions.
1. I'm not going near the 1 second stupidity.... Forget it. That really is common sense.
2. Is publishing a breach? Technically, yes. So I put up some photos of my kids and me on my private facebook page that I share with my family. Somehow the ex finds out and goes to the cops. As with the case above, they'll investigate, a good common sense (oh not that one again) police officer is gonna tell the ex to go away. A crazy copper might charge me. I would then hope my luck changes and the magistrate isn't as crazy.
So I found this link
Legal Aid NSW is collective to get legal help, free advice to disadvantaged people about legal issues affecting them and to see fact sheets and resources to help you with your problem.
www.lawaccess.nsw.gov.au
It talks about accidental breaches. So I reckon magistrate won't be interested in my facebook page. I could defend it on the "I didn't know that publishing included private correspondence" and based on the heat of the debate on that topic here I reckon that is plausible.... HOWEVER - if my facebook page is called "i'm gonna thump my ex at 12.00.01 when the avo expires" well magistrate might be less inclined.
3. Common sense... No communication. Sadly, this is where solicitors make their money... And maybe, just maybe, that is good this time. So back in the day, I asked solicitor about that and he said all communication to go through him (for a while). See common sense can be hard to find sometimes, like when you haven't seen your kids for a while and the ex is accusing you of violence. But communicate via letter, text message or email is common sense. Good policy. WHY? Well the proof is there. Indisputable and the magistrate can determine if it was one parent asking to see the kids OR was it harassment.... AVO's are not there to stop one person seeing their kids for up to 5 years. HELL no. So there needs to be accomodations made. 20 text messages a day = harassment. Common sense.
So Glasshalffull wants to know if there is an actual rule. NOPE. The law and the dictionary can't possibly articulate rules for every possibility and if the law makers were to try it would be so bloody convoluted that the average punter would have no chance of getting close to understanding it.
Now, I've had more than my fair share of trips to the cops shop courtesy of AVO's. So I reckon I've got some credentials on this one... In the first instance, the cops spend time explaining the terms. The cops work on the premise that everyone is illiterate.
When breaches happen they investigate. Now I did some research a while back, wish I could find the source… But overwhelmingly, the cops take no further action when they investigate claims of breach of avo. Common sense prevails
So lets close this thing using an example from criminal law. The self defence ‘reasonable force’. You’re attacking me. I push you away and jump in my car and lock the doors. I’ve used reasonable force, so Nope I have not committed assault. I then start the car and run you over… U’m nope. Not reasonable force. Now reasonable force is determined along the lines of what would the average punter do in the situation. The average punter OR to put it another way common sense.