alright - I'll give you a laugh. I got a letter from her solicitor knocking back my offer 70-30 in her favour.. Nope - she wanted 105%. yup, not a typo. Nor is it the funny bit.
Eventually we settled at 60/40 in her favour. But the size of the asset pool had shrunk by about $70 000 because the laywers always get paid and there was other wastage. To put it another way, she knocked back approximately $300 000 when she was offered 70% BUT got closer to $200 000 when she accepted 60%... Meanwhile, because she knocked back my offer where I got 30% but eventually settled with me getting 40% the amount I got from the separation was about the same.... Bloody madness.