Hi,
3 years ago, my marriage was very strained & after a number of days of feeling hopeless about the future of it & very distressed, I went to my gp to ask about support, expecting a referral for counselling or something similar. I was advised by the doctor to go to the police & make a statement so that if things got worse & I needed to rely on the history of what happened & how, I could.
I was advised that I could simply make a statement but that it wouldn't be acted on without my consent.
I went to the local police who asked me to make a statement in preference to just answering my enquiry about what happens & how it works. The officer who I spoke to has a child at the same school, so told me it would be a conflict of interest, so requested I talk to another officer. I was questioned for a very long time & repeatedly asked the same questions in different ways or was asked leading questions & then she put a typed statement in front of me with my name on it & told me that I had to sign it.
I questioned some of the things in the statement & advised the officer that I didn't agree with some of the wording or that I didn't use those words to which I was told - this is the wording that they have to use legally in a statement & I can't change it. I signed because they told me I had to. Before signing, I asked if they were going to do anything with it because I was only making it on the advice of my doctor that I might need it down the track & that my husband definitely wouldn't be arrested or charged. I was told they would talk to him but that he definitely wouldn't be arrested especially if he was cooperative.
I was then told not to return to my home until they called me & that I wasn't to speak to my husband if he contacted me. I was upset but felt reassured that they wouldn't do anything except talk to him.
I went to a friend's house with my son & the next thing I heard (the following day) was that they sent two police to my home & arrested my husband for family violence & assault (He smashed a coffee cup several years earlier & they'd gone through every disagreement we'd had in our entire relationship) & he was charged. They issued an interim IVO & it went to court soon after.
I asked to speak in court but was told I wasn't allowed because it was recorded as Victoria Police vs my husband. I managed to get the IVO dropped & instead they agreed to an undertaking for 1 yr. If no further issues, everything would revert to pre-statement as if nothing had happened. The year passed & months later out of the blue, the arresting officer charged my husband for a criminal assault (the coffee cup 8 yrs prior) & we went to court with statements supporting his changed behaviour, etc., including statements from people who could vouch for the sustained improvement. The charges were dropped.
My husband is very unsettled even just seeing the officer whose name was on the arrest warrant despite him telling me he couldn't take my statement due to conflict of interest. Although there is no record due to charges being dropped, obviously he still has an internal record on the Victoria Police database. Is there any way to get this changed?
My husband also feels we should be able to do something about the fact that they didn't act as they told me they would & arrested him even though he didn't hesitate to cooperate.
Sorry for the long post but you need a but of the history to answer accurately.
Thanks in advance.
3 years ago, my marriage was very strained & after a number of days of feeling hopeless about the future of it & very distressed, I went to my gp to ask about support, expecting a referral for counselling or something similar. I was advised by the doctor to go to the police & make a statement so that if things got worse & I needed to rely on the history of what happened & how, I could.
I was advised that I could simply make a statement but that it wouldn't be acted on without my consent.
I went to the local police who asked me to make a statement in preference to just answering my enquiry about what happens & how it works. The officer who I spoke to has a child at the same school, so told me it would be a conflict of interest, so requested I talk to another officer. I was questioned for a very long time & repeatedly asked the same questions in different ways or was asked leading questions & then she put a typed statement in front of me with my name on it & told me that I had to sign it.
I questioned some of the things in the statement & advised the officer that I didn't agree with some of the wording or that I didn't use those words to which I was told - this is the wording that they have to use legally in a statement & I can't change it. I signed because they told me I had to. Before signing, I asked if they were going to do anything with it because I was only making it on the advice of my doctor that I might need it down the track & that my husband definitely wouldn't be arrested or charged. I was told they would talk to him but that he definitely wouldn't be arrested especially if he was cooperative.
I was then told not to return to my home until they called me & that I wasn't to speak to my husband if he contacted me. I was upset but felt reassured that they wouldn't do anything except talk to him.
I went to a friend's house with my son & the next thing I heard (the following day) was that they sent two police to my home & arrested my husband for family violence & assault (He smashed a coffee cup several years earlier & they'd gone through every disagreement we'd had in our entire relationship) & he was charged. They issued an interim IVO & it went to court soon after.
I asked to speak in court but was told I wasn't allowed because it was recorded as Victoria Police vs my husband. I managed to get the IVO dropped & instead they agreed to an undertaking for 1 yr. If no further issues, everything would revert to pre-statement as if nothing had happened. The year passed & months later out of the blue, the arresting officer charged my husband for a criminal assault (the coffee cup 8 yrs prior) & we went to court with statements supporting his changed behaviour, etc., including statements from people who could vouch for the sustained improvement. The charges were dropped.
My husband is very unsettled even just seeing the officer whose name was on the arrest warrant despite him telling me he couldn't take my statement due to conflict of interest. Although there is no record due to charges being dropped, obviously he still has an internal record on the Victoria Police database. Is there any way to get this changed?
My husband also feels we should be able to do something about the fact that they didn't act as they told me they would & arrested him even though he didn't hesitate to cooperate.
Sorry for the long post but you need a but of the history to answer accurately.
Thanks in advance.