This is madness. So hypothetically, I get my family court orders. Requiring all the bells and whistles, ICL, Family Report Writer. A year of mentions before a trial date. Affidavits and all that. If the ex is particularily nasty, I have not seen my kid for months on end OR LONGER from time of separation to mediation to mediation to first mention, to second mention when interim orders are made. MONTHS NO ACCESS TO MY KID....FInally, after all that there is a trial. Evidence all tested and orders come down I get to see my kid 5 nights a fortnight. REMEMBER really nasty ex... So after the ink dries on the family court orders she makes a scene at the first change over. Goes to the cops, who will rubber stamp an avo that protects the ex and the kids. All of a sudden I'm back to square 1. Given that in NSW for example the theshold for an avo is the "balance of probability."
The decision
Now based on 4/5's of stuff all evidence, I'm back not seeing my kids? until the avo is dealt with or expires... Oh now the fun starts. I can't afford to fight this, not after spending $$ on the family law stuff. So I accept without admission. AVO for 1, nope 2 yrs. When it expires what then? ex lets me see the kids? HELL NO. She explains that after 2 yrs with NO CONTACT The kid the family court orders need updating... Back to mediation, trial, another year or so..... Betcha the ex will be straight to the cop shop after the next change over, which would be roughly 3 yrs since the last.... this is nonsense. Why?
Here is the answer
Family law is federal law, their orders trump state law. I have backed up everything I've said with reputable sources. Prove me wrong and provide a reliable source to prove me wrong.