The Family Law Act sets out important principles relating to children:
- Children have the right to have a meaningful relationship with and be cared for by both parents.
- Children have a right to spend time and communicate on a regular basis with both parents and other people who are significant to them.
- Parents jointly share duties and responsibilities regarding their children.
- Parents should agree about the future parenting of their children.
- Children have a right to enjoy their culture.
- The court must regard the best interests of the child as being the paramount consideration where the court is asked to make decisions about children.
Family lawyers can help you reach an agreement, but it will save you money if you can both agree on the parenting arrangements for your children after you separate - a parenting plan. Plus, it will be encouraging for your children to see you and your partner taking a mature approach and showing them that they are loved by both of you even though you're separating.
You can always get a family lawyer to formalise the parenting plan that you and your ex partner create. See this
Family Law Courts page for information to help you to come to an agreement on parenting arrangements.