I have no idea what exactly they are expecting of you. What it sounds like she was requested to do was to provide "Further and better particulars". That's what my ex was ordered to provide me in advance of the directions hearing. She ignored that and I had to turn up at the directions hearing still having no real idea of what I was supposed to be defending myself against. I raised this as an issue but the magistrate didn't really care, just pushed the case through to a contested hearing and once again ordered my ex to provide further and better particulars. She eventually did (again, after the deadline imposed by the magistrate), but it was just a collection of paperwork, letters from various people but nothing that actually gave me any further information about what specifically she was accusing me of doing. It was all a bit of a sham.
I eventually consented without admission mainly because I couldn't get legal aid and couldn't justify paying for a lawyer and given a respondent can't cross examine the applicant, I was even more behind the 8 ball than I would otherwise have been in a system where you're practically guilty until proven innocent. I wish I had contested it though, her case was extremely weak. After the police accepted the consent without admission, they admitted they had told her to accept the deal or they would withdraw their support. They knew it was weak. They just didn't admit it until after negotiations were over.
I eventually consented without admission mainly because I couldn't get legal aid and couldn't justify paying for a lawyer and given a respondent can't cross examine the applicant, I was even more behind the 8 ball than I would otherwise have been in a system where you're practically guilty until proven innocent. I wish I had contested it though, her case was extremely weak. After the police accepted the consent without admission, they admitted they had told her to accept the deal or they would withdraw their support. They knew it was weak. They just didn't admit it until after negotiations were over.