If they did file a notice of address for service, I wasn't aware of it and my lawyer didn't pass it on to me. I saw the email exchange and there was no mention of a change in representation. The matter is listed for parenting only as it's fairly complex with accusations of all kinds, but there are outstanding property matters that I don't want to engage my lawyer in due to the escalating costs and the limited chattels we had. I'd like to be able to deal with it myself, self represented ideally, but it sounds from what you've said that I cannot do that? Or can I only not discuss with her lawyer things that are actually listed in court (parenting matters, in my case)?