Hi,
I, myself, have and is still in the middle of the same situation. This is really a bad situation to be in with first hand accepting an AVO with the results of accepting the order without admission.
I, myself, have had the order amended to call and communicate with the consent of my ex-wife but now have learnt a big lesson this was a bad decision. I called her number to talk to the children but she should have supplied a phone to the kids then I would not have to directly call her.
I called her to try and get the remaining personal property from the property. Mind you, she denied me then threw $20,000 of my personal property in a multiple of skip bins with my good neighbour watching the whole thing. Throughout the day, police won't even charge her after I made a police report.
I have no rights the cops at SAPOL say to me.
I called her to sort out property settlement.
I called her to sort out the divorce.
All of theses subjects have been reported as harrassment and abuse by her.
My question is, I was arrested for breach of AVO and on this day, 14 saopl police officers:
2 being senior constables first class
3 being senior constable domestic violence police
And then out of nowhere 2 cars with another 8 unidentified SAPOL police ask me to go on camera for an interview. Said they had a warrant for my arrest but would not produce one for me to read what for. They did not read me my full rights but at the point of if you need a lawyer or call a lawyer,
I said "I do and I want to call her so she can hear everything over the phone".
As I went to get my phone from inside the door, I was grabbed and I felt threatened and went to shut the screen door but not lock it. When all five of the police officers, first class and domestic violence police, ripped my screen door right of the hinges. At this point, I definitely felt intimidated. Harrassment and abuse' by SAPOL.
How hard is it to ask me to just simply come down to the station, no extra stress but this day turned in to a circus for them. Mind you, I certainly did for 2 weeks straight try to call the domestic violence police officer in charge and make an appointment to sort this out without a fuss at all.
My house was peaceful and at the time. I was asleep and had arranged to come into the station at 3 pm but this was not good enough I was arrested mid-morning.
Their excuse for the disturbance to my peaceful house was that they finish there shifts at 3. My partner was left destroyed and clapsed on the floor without me to help her as I watched. Her depressed state of mind and anxiety, which affects her breathing and heart pulses, is very high still to this day, as she also was a domestic violence survivor with her ex loading a gun and pointing it at her then restraining her on the floor with a sweep trip and pinning.
Her chest / shoulder to the ground then, after all that, if that was not enough, threw her 3 metres backwards through the front door and fracturing her elbow. Two surgeries later, she cannot work as a beauty technician, massage therapist, or florist which she has worked hard at.
These same police officers arrested me for breach of AVO for trying to get on with my life and finalize all ties with my ex. Surprise.
Let him get away with what he did to her because he claimed self-defence. What a joke SAPOL.