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The girls keep asking me about when they will get a say. Eldest turns 15 soon, second is 14 next Feb. They are as sick of all this as I am. And they are very angry at their mother.
It's interesting to note that their mother has tried to engage me in conversation when I was on the phone to the kids the past two days - they were on speaker and she was listening to everything. She fired up over two topics of conversation which were harmless - me telling the eldest to not spend too much time on instagram... the other was when the 14yo asked how much our house is worth.... I didn't respond to the ex, but I am keeping a diary about absolutely everything for the directions hearing.