Hello,
I am hoping that someone may be able to help. My Mother-in-Law (MIL) owned her house (in Melbourne) outright before remarrying. Her 2nd husband came to the marriage with nothing and it has been quite apparent that he has also contributed very little to the day to day bills since then.
The problem: She is 82 and he is 84 and they do not like each other very much any more. They will not separate or divorce but neither of them are capable of looking after each other due to failing health even though the husband receives a carer's pension The husband has many adult children and none of them have treated my MIL very well over the years and especially of late.
My MIL has changed her will recently to remove a power of attorney from her husband and make my husband and his sister joint executors and joint power of attorney's to try to ensure that her wishes are carried out should she pass away first. Those wishes include that her house goes equally to her 3 children with the provision that he may live in the house until his death providing he does not take on other woman and that his children do not move in, and other property such as antique furniture and cash. She does make a provision for some cash for him.
She has been advised by her new solicitor that her wishes would not stand up in court and that should she die first her 2nd husband would receive the full estate. Also, that should he die first and she second, his children could challenge her will.
She is beside herself with worry now because she does not want any of her estate to go to her husband's children nor does she want to have any of them living in her house ever.
She is now looking at her options on how to deny them any chance of this while she is still alive. They are:
1.Selling her house and gifting the proceeds to her three children probably in the form of term deposits so that access will be available to take care of her aged care and housing.
2. Accessing equity in the home via reverse mortgage.
She is leaning more towards option 1 at this stage.
My question is, does she have the right to sell or mortgage her property and gift the proceeds to her children whilst she is living without any consequences?
Any advice would be appreciated
I am hoping that someone may be able to help. My Mother-in-Law (MIL) owned her house (in Melbourne) outright before remarrying. Her 2nd husband came to the marriage with nothing and it has been quite apparent that he has also contributed very little to the day to day bills since then.
The problem: She is 82 and he is 84 and they do not like each other very much any more. They will not separate or divorce but neither of them are capable of looking after each other due to failing health even though the husband receives a carer's pension The husband has many adult children and none of them have treated my MIL very well over the years and especially of late.
My MIL has changed her will recently to remove a power of attorney from her husband and make my husband and his sister joint executors and joint power of attorney's to try to ensure that her wishes are carried out should she pass away first. Those wishes include that her house goes equally to her 3 children with the provision that he may live in the house until his death providing he does not take on other woman and that his children do not move in, and other property such as antique furniture and cash. She does make a provision for some cash for him.
She has been advised by her new solicitor that her wishes would not stand up in court and that should she die first her 2nd husband would receive the full estate. Also, that should he die first and she second, his children could challenge her will.
She is beside herself with worry now because she does not want any of her estate to go to her husband's children nor does she want to have any of them living in her house ever.
She is now looking at her options on how to deny them any chance of this while she is still alive. They are:
1.Selling her house and gifting the proceeds to her three children probably in the form of term deposits so that access will be available to take care of her aged care and housing.
2. Accessing equity in the home via reverse mortgage.
She is leaning more towards option 1 at this stage.
My question is, does she have the right to sell or mortgage her property and gift the proceeds to her children whilst she is living without any consequences?
Any advice would be appreciated