Hi Razz,
The law cannot compel anyone to remain in a marriage they do not wish to continue. It sounds like you want your husband to return to India but he wishes to remain in Australia. Is this correct? Is this a marriage-breaker for you (or him)? Is your husband happy to continue the marriage if he remains in Australia and you return to India (or remain in India with him)?
It sounds like a domestic issue and what you really need is to sit down and properly chat with your husband about this. If he is unwilling to do this, then there really is no way to force him to. Which state are you located in? Perhaps you could ask your husband to go to family mediation or marriage counselling. It sounds like the two of you need to communicate with one another. It's not really a legal matter but a relationship matter.
Having said that, your husband does not need your consent to start divorce proceedings. He can make a sole application (making you the respondent). He will need to show that "the marriage has broken down irreparably". This means, he needs to prove:
- You and him have been living "separately and apart" for at least 12 months (this could be living under the same roof but in a separated arrangement); and
- There is no reasonable likelihood that you and your husband will rekindle the relationship.
You can challenge the application on the above two grounds (i.e. arguing that you have not been living separately and apart for at least 12 months). However, you cannot dispute his divorce application purely on the ground you wish to remain married to him.
Hope this helps, Razz.