Hi,
I’m 1 of 2 executors of my grandfather’s deceased estate and also a beneficiary of the estate.
To cut a long story short ( which is quite messy ):
- A family member was power of attorney for my grandfather and he took care of him and sorted out my grandfather’s finances. Unfortunately the person did the wrong thing and took money out of the estate and put it in their own bank account and paid any estate bills from it.
- The estate had a house, car and money in a bank account before the POA put it in their account to pay the bills.
- The house and car were sold by us executors and the family member contested the will - after years of back and forth with lawyers and each party it made its way to the supreme court and an agreement was made minutes before going to trail ( as part of the agreement I signed a drafted letter stating that the estate would continue to fight for the missing money to be returned )
- The money was distributed to the beneficiaries as per the will.
- We still have the problem of obtaining the money from my grandfather’s bank account – we have proof of what was in the account and the family member has shown receipts of what they’ve spent and has stated that my grandfather said to the family member that they can keep the left over money before passing ( but no proof ).
- Action is being taken to go back to court to try and recover this money.
The money that was in the account before the family member put it into there’s then deduct the receipts leaves a sum of about 40k.
Assuming we recover this amount that’s left over and pay for lawyer fees and distribute the money with the beneficiaries it seems in my eyes hardly worth the effort and expense as the winners will be the lawyers out of this.
The other executor wants the full amount of money returned to the estate with interest over the years that the money hasn’t been in the estates care, this is where we don’t agree as I have reminded the executor that the family member has paid for bills so deduct that off the original figure that was in the bank account.
Question I have :
- Is there a way that I can apply to the supreme court and relinquish being an executor from the estate and pull out of this? Or will this cost too much money to do now? And because I signed to say the estate would continue to fight for the money am I stuck in this mess?
- How things are panning out we will be heading to court again as mediation failed – obviously to go to court there will be a cost to the estate, I can’t afford to give money to the estate to move forward but I’m being pressured into handing over quite a bit of money to proceed with legal proceedings. What are my options?
- Is it fair to claim interest on this money that hasn’t returned yet?
Thank you
I’m 1 of 2 executors of my grandfather’s deceased estate and also a beneficiary of the estate.
To cut a long story short ( which is quite messy ):
- A family member was power of attorney for my grandfather and he took care of him and sorted out my grandfather’s finances. Unfortunately the person did the wrong thing and took money out of the estate and put it in their own bank account and paid any estate bills from it.
- The estate had a house, car and money in a bank account before the POA put it in their account to pay the bills.
- The house and car were sold by us executors and the family member contested the will - after years of back and forth with lawyers and each party it made its way to the supreme court and an agreement was made minutes before going to trail ( as part of the agreement I signed a drafted letter stating that the estate would continue to fight for the missing money to be returned )
- The money was distributed to the beneficiaries as per the will.
- We still have the problem of obtaining the money from my grandfather’s bank account – we have proof of what was in the account and the family member has shown receipts of what they’ve spent and has stated that my grandfather said to the family member that they can keep the left over money before passing ( but no proof ).
- Action is being taken to go back to court to try and recover this money.
The money that was in the account before the family member put it into there’s then deduct the receipts leaves a sum of about 40k.
Assuming we recover this amount that’s left over and pay for lawyer fees and distribute the money with the beneficiaries it seems in my eyes hardly worth the effort and expense as the winners will be the lawyers out of this.
The other executor wants the full amount of money returned to the estate with interest over the years that the money hasn’t been in the estates care, this is where we don’t agree as I have reminded the executor that the family member has paid for bills so deduct that off the original figure that was in the bank account.
Question I have :
- Is there a way that I can apply to the supreme court and relinquish being an executor from the estate and pull out of this? Or will this cost too much money to do now? And because I signed to say the estate would continue to fight for the money am I stuck in this mess?
- How things are panning out we will be heading to court again as mediation failed – obviously to go to court there will be a cost to the estate, I can’t afford to give money to the estate to move forward but I’m being pressured into handing over quite a bit of money to proceed with legal proceedings. What are my options?
- Is it fair to claim interest on this money that hasn’t returned yet?
Thank you