My father and I were estranged so I wasn’t told he passed. It wasn’t until I tried to make amends, that I found out he passed 3 yrs prior! This broke me and I need to get answers but I can’t because he is not on my birth certificate. The only family I may have left is my grandmother who has dementia, she does not remember me and I don’t know if she is alive. I need help, I don’t know who I can call to help me. I have autism and struggle with these things.