I'm currently in the early negotiation stage of developing a parenting plan for my 3-year-old daughter. I've had a few mental health problems over the years but I am now stable and on medication. My ex-partner is requesting that I a) see the psychiatrist every two months b) give irrevocable authority to my psychiatrist to inform the mother of the outcome of each of these appointments, and/or failure to attend a scheduled appointment without good reason and/or if my mental health deteriorates. I only see him every 4 months because I'm doing so well. Do I have any grounds to refuse these requests? (The ex says she will stop all contact with my daughter unless I agree). I currently have supervised contact.