My father willed his home to his 3 children, I am one. My brothers were made executors of will. One is lovely, the other is a greedy nasty hound. My nice brother is terminal and the other brother has been abusive and nasty. I am worried that he will obstruct me when the time comes to settle. The house is on the market. Where does the money go when sold? And how is the money distributed? I am also his victim of sexual abuse as a child, and regularly get traumatized when he attacks me...can I get someone to deal with this for me? Single parent, no money for lawyer...