Hi Madaline,
Is your question whether to leave/divorce your husband or whether to forgo your super in the joint account?
If you separate, your super (joint and personal) forms part of the shared assets (together with your other joint and personal assets). You then divide this in a process known as property settlement. You can either do this amicably with your husband (by drawing a formal written agreement and have lawyers look through this agreement) or you can let the court decide. Either way, your superannuation (both yours and your husbands) will be considered together with your other assets and contributions.
Hence, there are two parts to property settlement:
1. How much does each party contribute to the shared assets? What is the value of the shared pool?
2. How much should each party get from the shared assets? Therefore, how should the pool be split?
The second question will consider:
- Proportion each party contributed to the shared pool;
- Earning capacities of each party (past, present and future);
- Financial obligations and needs by each party;
- Dependants and their financial needs and how their is shared by the parties;
Ultimately, the court will decide on a split that is fair and equitable. If your husband is angry and uncooperative, then it may be best to get the court to help you.