Solution? Public school.
CSA have a rule
2.6.9 Reason 3 - high costs of caring for, educating or training the child in the manner expected by the parents | Child Support Guide
Yup - I didn't understand it either... I think it loosly translates as it depends on which punter you get at CSA making the call...
Here is the problem. Once the kid is enrolled there is a contract between parents and the school. The school wants their money. Let's throw in uniforms, laptop, excursions, all the other crap private school fees hit parents for.... THEY WANT THEIR MONEY. IF mum doesn't pay her bit they'll come after YOU!
So even if you have a bindnig financial agreement with the ex. If you sign the enrollment forms then you have entered into a contract with the school - They have nothing to do with the BFA.
Best solution? Public school. Circumstances change, sure private school was a great idea when there were two incomes and one mortgage / rent to pay... Now you're single income and two houses.
Second best solution? Talk to the school - Make sure they understand how they'll be getting paid. It is a bit like when you go to a restaurant and they have a sign saying the won't split the bill. But they'll likely say, they don't wanna get involved, they just want their money.
.. AND what if... What IF.... WHAT IF... see you'll spend years worrying WHAT IF the ex stops paying her share. How are you gonna go with the tears when the kid says mummy said she can't afford it and daddy won't pay up and now little precious has to leave the private school and go to that one down the road that doesn't even have a swimming pool or pony club.
(disclaimer) public school teacher here.
But there is some good research that shows changing schools is a negative indicator on educational achievement.
Third best solution - Don't sign the enrollment forms. Means you're not liable for the fees... BUT do sign a BFA to pay $XX above CSA. But this gets messy. (please to a fact check with centerlink) I think that for every additional dollar you pay in child support comes with a 50cent reduction in HER family tax benefit.
Child support assessment - How child support affects FTB Part A - Services Australia
Yup I read it too, still not sure I understand.
Jake - do ya rekon Darth Vader paid child support?