Hi MissFortune,
Yes - Financial/money management should be its own school subject!
Any early release of superannuation is generally at the discretion of the superannuation fund. That said, as you appear to be aware, being in receipt of Centrelink benefits for 26 weeks is generally a requirement for any early release of superannuation because of severe financial hardship.
For further information, please see:
http://www.humanservices.gov.au/customer/services/centrelink/early-release-of-superannuation
http://www.australiansuper.com/tool...-are-the-financial-hardship-requirements.aspx
Given the further information provided, you should consider encouraging your partner to seek free, independent and confidential financial counselling services via
https://www.afsa.gov.au/debtors/financial-counsellors at his earliest opportunity.
Please keep us updated with your progress. All the best!