NSW Children in care, issues with DCJs. Desperate for help

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15 December 2024
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Hello and Thankyou,
Very Extended due to knowledge of situations for proper advice please . Very desperate as its causing an effect on me and my childrens father.
My partner was falsely accused of aggravated sexual assault against a minor and grooming. The statements by the victim changed 3 times and in court several lies were introduced regarding myself and children having a relationship with this child. i met this child on one occasion she came to my house to see my 11yr old daughter after father weekend with my daughter as he was friends with her mother. My childrens father and the victims mother were in a relationship for a period of 6 months a number of years ago remained in contact as friends, the mothers children were in care at this time. Early 2022 the kids were restored to the mother my partner lost his home and rented a room at their house for 1months, the father of my children had to leave as he developed and ice habit and smoked pot.
He met this child a couple of times, never exchanged numbers or social media. The mother and child had a very hostile relationship, resulting in the child being kicked out at 13 to a girls home 9 months later. She was contacting the father of my children on facebook for his number to see my 11yr old daughter she was with a friend alot older extremely demanding of ice and pot, he refused to help her but went to see her and the friend as she wouldn't stop harassing him on the phone and explained she had been kicked out. later revealed concerned she was being sold for drugs by friends and that they would seriously harm her if she didnt get them their drugs and that she couldnt go back to the girls home because of this and would sleep on the street or kill herself. I was witness to all communication via phone calls, and my childrens father lived with a couple. his phone was internet access at his home the couple would use this phone daily to communicate and use wifi.
he went to trial after 18months remand and was coerced by the barrister to plead guilty due to messages being exchanged for sex, he did not introduce witnesses credible or the couple as they were not stable enough to take the stand. My childrens fathers barrister knew the victim was lying and displayed this from cross examination and no other evidence from dpp. Sentencing he received 5 yrs 3.5 with parole.
the mother of the victim followed me from the court room and bailed me up in the toilet restraining my hands and arms insisting he admitted this to his jail psychiatrist in detail and lied about having a child with him but knew my kids had gone into care. the child followed and forced herself on me hanging onto me, mother was not too concerned about therapy or getting this child help and this child displayed a very distant nervousness in the bathroom around her mother.
my friend had sternly asked this mother to remove herself from restraining me this mother got aggressive and walked out.
i tried to approach the mother outside the courthouse to ask where the evidence was of confession as my children had been removed from my care after returning from 7 days in mental health ward with father being main concern originally along with my mental health from family violence with my mother.
she abused me calling breach of avo resulting in officer coming over to speak to me. (he turned up at my house 4 weeks prior to my kids being removed from dcjs requesting a statement for the defendant. i refused and he left.) the officer was very rude and started telling me to fix myself im a mess with myself, with drugs, mental health issues and knew my kids were removed..
He was not the reporting officer to my children in care regarding my children speaking of sexual assault against my mother.

Are DCJs allowed to remove my children from my care because i spoke with him over the phone from jail? after being told my children couldn't, then could speak with him on louder speaker then advised at court they said no under all circumstances. The jail had no concerns with phone contact for my children.

Also, my lawyer has silenced me about speaking of my interactions with dcjs or concerns they purposely falsified conversations labelling me an excessive disciplinary mother in a psychosis. Mental health 1 said trauma result from violence can include hallucinations and other things, mental health 2 said psychosis from excessive drug, i used a very small amount of ice weekly to maintain energy from being so depressed from my familys violence and nothing more. everything was recorded on paper with dcjs saying my children were parenting me, coerced by me into believing my hallucination ...
My lawyer never asks me to produce anything to defend myself or explains what we should do just to wait and see what dcjs say and the court. my lawyer has not spoken to me other than court outcomes and next appearance at court and lately im feeling like a target.

Are child protection police officers allowed to discuss cases with each other and work in conjunction to remove my children due to his incarceration?
Dcjs denied exchanges with officers regarding father on my case.
Can i make a report about the victim and mother bailing me up in the bathroom and restraining my arms that wont affect me in childrens court?
do i need to contact my childrens fathers barrister in relation to the victims mother saying myself and children have a close relationship when i had only just met them, can this be added to his sentencing appeal or is it irrelevant on our side?
If a confession was made to a psychiatrist in jail, my kids fathers barrister would have told me right?
care placements for permanent care are being put in place in January. i have been following the care plan for restoration self referring from lack of help from DCJs demonstrating proof in family time my stress with my 3 kids under 5 has changed?
how do i get 5 months of ignored information across to the judge and ask for my children back and have it accepted?
Should i request a new lawyer? represent myself or leave my current lawyer and suffer?

i cant shake the thought im a victim of supporting my childrens innocent father and standing by him and confessing to the issues my household has from 12 months of abuse and violence with my mother after being asked what i need help with.

terribly sorry for the very lengthy information, Im very lost and confused and dont know what to do about all this but time is running out for me to defend myself